Feeling better

This headline sums up this week's top accomplishment: everyone is feeling a lot better than this time a week ago. Most importantly, Parker turned a corner on Sunday afternoon (as usually happens not long after I take him in to the doc) and by mid-week was back to his old self. Actually quite a bit better than his old self as he seems to be learning at last, at the ripe age of 17 months, to sleep more solidly and consistently than before. This may simply be because Karen & I were so knackered last week that we dusted off the 'cry it out' Ferber method, turned of the baby monitor and just let him holler -- and it seems to have worked.  Hallelujah, may it endure. Sadie's also healthy again, back in school, ballet, etc. Only Karen's not 100% there, still battling a sinus infection, but she's close.

Thus mostly restored we've spent some of our newfound energy trying to get a little more moved into our flat. This meant some purchases from Ikea and eBay, quite a bit of flatpack assembly work for Andrew and Parker (not always the most efficient team), and discussions about curtains and a faux fireplace. So far we have a new TV to show for it --which does not yet work -- as well as new dining room chairs and some toy storage. I wouldn't call it a total transformation but it's feeling a little more lived in.

We even got out a bit over the weekend -- to ballet; two teas with friends (on Saturday, Big Parker and Anna and their 3 daughters; on Sunday, my colleague and neighbor Igor, his wife and 2 kids); and this morning a visit to the Science Museum and walk through Hyde Park in sunny, almost spring-like weather.

Home sweet holidays

Despite the inauspicious way in which we departed, and our rootless, jet-setting movements during the month -- by my count I slept in 10 different cities, a bit fewer for Karen and the kids -- our holiday time in the USA was truly great. We arrived in what was, by all accounts, pretty rough shape. All four of us in varying states of illness and fatigue. Insomnia, laryngitis, nauseau and pinkeye all among reported symptoms. To our good fortune, we were awaited by the welcoming arms of the Howell grandparents, the Ellis sibling/cousins, Punam, Natty, Uncle Buck, Denia, Nadya, Inna and others -- all of whom pitched in to get us back on our feet. Although the jetlag was not exactly easy (Parker had a few very early mornings to start with), by week two we were all pretty adjusted, rested, and on our way to feeling much better.

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In all three of our primary locations -- Washington, Buffalo and Maplewood -- we had a great time, filled with family and old friends. DC highlights included: lots of hanging our on 2923 Macomb Street with family, reading of A Child's Christmas in Wales and an improv Christmas pageant, the 'traditional' Christmas steak & egg breakfast, trips around Washington to places like the Botanical Gardens and American Indian Museum, a great evening in Mount Ranier at the Ellises new place, late night Catan-fest on New Year's Eve and a trip down to see the Griscoms in Harrisonburg; in Buffalo: Grandma's 90th birthday, sledding, a visit back to the Drip coffee shop on Elmwood, the amazing Museum of Play in Rochester, buffalo wings, a fabulous weekend in Toronto (Karen can probably add more as I was traveling for part of the week); in Maplewood: time with some of our good friends from the 'hood, a swing by our old red ('reggie') home, and a visitation of the great new drive-through Dunkin Donuts that has recently made it to the neighborhood.

It was a fiendishly complex itinerary, but amazingly it all came together (including my brief criss-crossing of New York-Boston-Minneapolis-Austin-San Francisco for work). By the time the four week visit was up we felt more or less revitalized, renewed, reinvigorated and reconnected  -- with an injection of energy to tackle 2011 in London after what was an encouraging but challenging first few months. We were also looking forward to unpacking our suitcases and getting back to a routine again.

Unfortunately... 2011 in London has not exactly gotten off to any easy start. Indeed it kind of picked up where it left off: struggling with health issues. The main problem has been Parker, who has been sick from the day we flew back from New York a week ago. Started with a stomach bug -- which unfortunately meant not much sleep and lots of vomiting on the slight back -- and in the past few days has morphed into an upper respiratory infection that now has him in really rough shape (and precipitated his 5th trip to the A&E with me this afternoon). Poor little Parker, he has had such a hard time staying healthy these past few months, and we're very worried about him. (As I write I can hear him coughing from his room as he tries to sleep.) On top of this, the week was also complicated by a stomach virus that afflicted Karen, Sadie and Andrea the nanny (oddly, not me) -- passing after a couple of days but also resulting in more missed work, school and disrupted routine. Yuck!

So... we're back in London, optimistic about the coming year but most of all dreaming of getting everyone healthy and back on track. En shallah!